Donor Growth and Maturity - Conformer and Individual

Wes Wilmer in his book God and Your Stuff: The Vital Link Between Your Possessions and Your Soul describes the stages of maturity of the donor as he or she grows closer and closer to the mind of God in terms of possessions and giving.

The six categories:

1. Imitator


2. Modeler


3. Conformer


4. Individual


5. Generous Giver


6. Mature Steward

Today, we will review the middle two stages:

Stage 3: Conformer

Faith Characteristics: Faith becomes a basis for love, acceptance,and identity; involves most aspects of life and is shaped mainly by relationships. Faith does not yet form a cohesive "philosophy of life."

Evidence in Use of Possessions: Gives because it is the thing to do. Like recognition, tax benefits, and other personal gain from giving.

My thoughts: Again, this individual would rather be on the "right" side than run the risk of being wrong. The emphasis is still on "me" on not others. A measured approach.

Stage4: Individual

Faith Characteristics: Begins to "own" one's faith. Faith is less defined by others as one becomes able to personally examine and question one's beliefs.

Evidence in Use of Possessions: Starts to give in proportion to the what God has given. Danger of becoming prideful regarding giving or giving for the wrong motives. Wonders why others don't give more.

My thoughts: "Gets it" individually, but is still looking around at others. Knows where gifts comes from and acknowledges that, but can get become a little judgemental toward others.

As you can imagine the last installment will describe the kinds of donors we all seek to be. Before we assume that we have "arrived", let us bow our knees and ask what more we need to learn.